Comments on The North Eastern Corner: Peacocks and Pomposity

Tom it WAS in the greater Boston area, yes. I'...

2009-08-25T10:21:11.619-04:00

Tom it WAS in the greater Boston area, yes.

I'm a Boston driver.
I have been ever since I moved here from DC 12 years ago.

My point isn't about his driving style.

Nothing will change Boston drivers.

BUT:
get the fricking medallions off your car if you're going to drive like that.

I know I drive like an a-hole.

I choose to not have Masonic medallions on my car for that very reason - I do not want to give bad advertising about Masonry.

Tom - I certainly agree that those who do so much ...

2009-08-24T17:36:48.522-04:00

Tom - I certainly agree that those who do so much for the fraternity because of their love for the organization certainly need to and should be recognized.

I think MM's point which I have seen as well is some of these peacocks like to critize newer members/officers over trivial items and thus discourage them from even trying. One should never lose site of the fact that we are a volunteer organization.

MP - you said this was in Massachusetts, right? &#...

2009-08-24T14:26:14.025-04:00

MP - you said this was in Massachusetts, right? 'cos, you know, if this was between the Conn River and Cape Cod, you really should give him the benefit of a doubt.

I get the point of this post, but let me hit anoth...

2009-08-24T09:09:57.519-04:00

I get the point of this post, but let me hit another aspect of the "medallion on the car bupmer" thing that really ticks me off.

Swearing, yelling, hassling, and verbally abusing OTHER drivers, while displaying Masonic medallions on your car.

I saw someone do that in Massachusetts, once.

I pulled up next to him at the light, honked once to get his attention, we rolled our windows down, and I asked him, point blank:

"Are you keeping your passions in due bounds, Brother?"

"WTF are you talking about, a-hole?"

"You have Masonic medallions on your car, are you a Mason?"

"Yes, so what?"

"ACT LIKE ONE!"

Ah, well, that's one of the downsides. Fortu...

2009-08-23T17:51:58.922-04:00

Ah, well, that's one of the downsides.

Fortunately, I don't let all the power I have go to my head. The GL of Southern New England takes a dim view of that kind of thing...

I certainly recognize what certain plutarchs of th...

2009-08-23T13:06:43.407-04:00

I certainly recognize what certain plutarchs of the royal plume do, I sometimes think their boorish behavior results in many who would contribute, staying away from leadership roles because of them.

Here's another take: We barely have enough vol...

2009-08-23T12:29:53.418-04:00

Here's another take: We barely have enough volunteers to do the things that need to be done. If all it takes is for a handful of peacocks, er, motivated brothers to take the reins and to reward them with a few pins and ribbons, then what's the problem?

Years ago I complained that a certain group (not this one) was handing out what I thought were rather pricey award plaques, and said something to somebody. That person explained that it cost a few hundred dollars to have the plaques made up, plus a few hundred dollars more for the dinner. On the other hand, the handful of recipients did more for the organization for free than the group would have accomplished by paying people ten times the worth of the awards.

Recognition and public appreciation is a powerful motivator. Until everybody is willing to step up and shoulder the burdens equally, let's keep that in perspective.

Ah yes the title seekers, interesting bunch, the b...

2009-08-23T09:56:25.422-04:00

Ah yes the title seekers, interesting bunch, the big man on campus syndrome. Usually easily spotted by the fifty pounds of bling on their coats.

Unfortunately even in our fraternity some men lose sight of what we are all about. While us purest go about actually trying to build something, they are building their ego.

The peacocks thrive because there are few willing to take on leadership roles and we as an organization have not right sized for the number of members we have. We still think we have the man power to support all the blue lodges and appendent bodies.